Health and Fitness
GAY SEX ED: TANTRIC FUCKING – THRUSTING, MOVEMENTS AND TEMPO
Tantric thrusting patterns
Tantra is a set of techniques used all over the world to deepen intimacy and increase passion. In the West, we tend to view sex as a source of recreation where the end goal is orgasm. Tantra teaches us to prolong the act of making love for more potent orgasms.
Here are a few tantric thrusting patterns to try. Try to maintain eye contact and breathe at the same pace. The connection you’ll feel will blow your mind.
- The “Thrusts Of The Heron”: Deep for three consecutive thrusts, then go shallow with just the tip.
- The “Thrusts Of The Dragon”: Nine times deep, one time shallow. Then reverse.
- The “Thrusts Of The Phoenix”: Run a pattern. 9 deep/1 shallow, 8 deep/2 shallow, 7 deep/3 shallow, and so on until you reverse it and get to 1 deep/9 shallow.
- The “Mouse”: Quick and shallow thrusts. This is where you’re fucking him with only half of your dick.
- The “Eagle”: Hold your penis motionless at the entrance of his starfish then swoop in. Quickly and deeply.
All thrusting aside…
It’s important to remember why you’re taking this journey in the first place.
You are topping for specific, human reasons:
You want to feel closer to your partner; to give him something of yourself.
He’s loved your cock in his hands and in his mouth and now he wants it inside of him. You want to feel the kind of physical, sexual union that can only come from giving yourself to him.
You want to give him mind-numbing pleasure.
It’s important that you ignite your sexual imagination. Stay present to the beauty of your partner’s body.
Enjoy the psychological and emotional journey that penetrating offers
Do you avoid getting fucked because it hurts?
Practice with a bigger toy so you’re ready when he is. Try a king size dildo that’s tapered and curved enough to target your prostate while you practice.
Final tips
Try using a circular rather than a thrusting motion. Some guys initially don’t like the straight in-and-out business. Especially if you partner’s penis is unusually stiff, straight or longer than average.
Put lube in his ass and on it.
Put lube on his dick too. That way he can jerk off while you’re fucking him.
If you need good lube, try water-based Boy Butter. It’s an organic creamy lube that’s safe to use with condoms. And it doesn’t dry out like store brand lube.
If you want to go in as deep as possible, try laying on your side, facing away from your partner as if you were spooning. Because it’s a common sleeping position, it helps the body relax faster and deeper. Don’t be afraid to try things that seem a little odd. If it feels good it’s because your s-curve straightened out and your partner’s penis stimulates the prostate in a more effective way.
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